Ohh, this is terrible. I sympathize with you. I know what it feels like to feel that your mother has health problems and you can't even help her. I myself faced this, but my situation was not so terrible and my mother just had problems with menstruation. More precisely, we thought that these were ordinary problems, but in the end it turned out that she was menopause. We would not have known this if it had not been for the tests from myhealthconfirm.com . We bought them and after we saw the result we understood everything and it was a serious blow for her, but she coped.