I Need Your Help Please...

[mibrains]

my best friend in the world just called me...

his girlfriend (lives together i actually am renting her house) has 2 daughters and a son.

he has a son and daughter.

last night around 11 her oldest came in and her middle daughter (13yo) was lying non responsive on the floor.

long story short for now because im on my way over there...

she passed away last night...

his step daughter at 13 years old....

he said her airway was blocked, and he had diffiulty doing cpr on her....

he had to do cpr on her...

my god.

prayers please...

for parents and thier brothers and sisters...and all our friends...

im shaking...

this is so tragic.

he did tell me he did NOT suspect a OD

autopsy later today.....

please say a prayer...

i'll be back later to fill any details..

peace's...

[+Annnie]

I am sooo sad to hear this news.. I will be praying for your friend..

[P.J.]

I am sorry for their loss...You and the family are in my prayers

[MORE COWBELL]

major condolences

[northerngal]

So very sad. I am very sorry to hear of your friends loss. There are no words to ease the loss of a child.

[Big J]

I am sorry to hear this no parent should have to endure losing a child. My thoughts are with them.

[Retta]

Prayers and sympathy to your friends and you.

[mibrains]

thank you all so very much...

i just came from Tony's and they are of course devastated.

it sounds like she may have choked on a piece of cheese. he's not sure yet but the autopsy should be completed this afternoon.

such a beautiful young girl....

i am so sad for them.

they are being strong right now but i know the pain inside is overwhelming...

i once again thank all of you for your thoughts and prayers i know they help...

thank you.

John

 

thats twice in the past six months a friend of mine has lost a child....

no one ever said life was fair.

it makes me rethink about the fragility of life.

hugg a loved one today folks

for that matter hugg and enemy today...just pass out a hugg...make the world warmer just for a minute....

[drtarzanmd]

So Very Sorry " John " ....

 

No Words can remove the Pain or

the Emotions a human has to endure ...

 

Sometimes Life can be so Cruel and Unfair ...

 

If i can be of any Help , You have my Number ...

 

I thought my Problems were overwhelming till i read this ....

 

I am So Very Sorry John ....

[Guest d00g]

[phaquetoo]

Im So Sorry John. My Heart and tears go out to You and Yours!

 

Peace

FTW

Jim

[Grow Thread]

my prayers are there. heart wrenching.

[Happy D]

How aweful! I'm so sorry for the loss. Makes you not want to take life for granted. One minute snacking on cheese and the next gone. So fragile.

[Bisharoo]

I can't imagine what this family has to face here. They need all the love they can get right now. I will send my energies their way now in the hopes that it can help somehow...

[Guest thequietone]

Such a tragedy no parent should have to go through. My thoughts and prayers go out to your friends and may the Lord comfort them in their hour of pain.

[Hempcheff]

[mibrains]

WOW you guys and gals are the best!

thank you so much for the prayers.

they said they could actually tell people were pulling for them, they feel the love....

i just came back home again for a minute...took over a meat and cracker tray (no cheese)

they meet with the funeral director at 3 so i am home for a shower and i really need to drink some water since i am dehydrated from shedding tears...

these are good people and i feel their pain.

no parent should ever have to loose a child. i mean i know it happens, i c it...and read about it but dang it...this is in my back yard....

her spirit goes on.

her love will be felt forever.

her strengths cherished...

we will miss you casey.

god bless you all

[thanks2]

[TajMahal]

What a tragedy, I wish no parent had to go through this.

 

Thoughts and prayers to you and your friends.

[drtarzanmd]

" mibrains " Please Email their mailing address

 

so i can send them a card from the Atlanta Compassion Club ...

 

and i will also send a card w/ a little cash to help them ....

[mibrains]

you know for a bunch of sick people you sure do know how to care and send love to the maximum..

 

the outreach and kindness are overwhelming...

 

thank you all so much for your strength, prayers, and kind words right now it means so much...

 

they don't have the autopsy report back for a couple of days, but Casey will be ......layed to rest....

 

sorry

 

i

 

wow....just to type those words up there make me just ball again........dam fate seems to be so cruel sometimes..

 

theres a showing Saturday 4-6 and Sunday 2-4 and 4-6 at buresh funeral home here in Oscoda...then a service / burial monday...

 

all her friends from school and the entire town has been unreal and so supportive...the outpouring of compassion has been remarkable...but the sadness is so hard to contain. to be strong now is almost impossible...a unsurmountable task...as i looked into her brother's eye's yesturday.....it was impossible to even express my sadness for his pain...if i could take just one ounce of it away.....

 

sad times for sure....

 

amid all the stress of our fledgling law there is a unsurmountable tragedy to distract and remind me that life is precious, fragile, and short.

 

HUG THE ONES YOU LOVE TODAY AGAIN AND AGAIN

 

thank you all for your support.

 

I'll be arranging / helping the family with a benefit / memorial event in a few weeks when they can find a way to breath again.....

[Medcare]

I just now have been able to read this thread. How sad, how very very sad. There will be a day when all tears will be wiped away and no sadness will be in the land.

My condolences to the family.

 

Chuck

[mibrains]

akeen...

thank you thats a beautiful song.

i have been crying for their pain since yesturday...i am not usually a sensitive person. and i don't admit to crying often, but i gotta tell you as i try to be strong....i find it's near impossible to not just loose it when i picture her brother and sister...and mother...and my friend no my brother (From my other mother) who has been in their life for over 6 years, so i would say the closest thing to a father one could hope for....

life is so short. and the only one lesson i know for absolute certainty is this.

 

nothing stays the same, life changes in an instant. the blind side.

 

thank you all so much for the kindness, caring and compassion you all have demonstrated....truely a great group of people, and i am proud to call each and every one of you my friend.

 

wow...dang it all.... typing this as the song fades away i find myself crying again....

 

i know

time heals all wounds....

thanks again to everyone...

[mibrains]

well before i put this thread to sleep i thought it was appropriate to tell of the closure.

 

seeing her in the casket was difficult.

listening to her close friends cry was heart wrenching

seeing all the pictures and the people care was renewing and uplifting.

but

listening to her mom at the funeral gave me the strength to do anything in this world. i was amazed at how strong and composed Fran was for her children. she stood and addressed them in what was the most intense thing i have ever witnessed. she basically told them they would all be OK and get through it together....it was unreal. she is a testament to human survival.

the next few months are going to be difficult.

but

this big Ole rock doesn't stop spinning for anyone...hang on, ride while you can....soon enough it's over for each of us.

i pray they stay strong as a family, and that the future provides so much love for them that they never fall.

thank you all for your thoughts and prayers.

 

Dr. Tarzan & Jane and the Atlanta Compassion Club....

you guys are amazing. Thank you for sending a card and money,

i can't express how much it means to me that you

guys care that much. Tony was really surprised.

I merely told him you folks were some of the most compassionate people i have ever met, and that when you guys learned of this tragedy Tarzan you reached out to me immediately without hesitation and asked where you could send a remembrence...

he was moved

i am moved

thank you my friends

peace

 

fyi...as of today her toxicology / pathology report has not come back yet. they do not suspect it will show any signs of anything foul. they are currently saying her death is most likely a result of a unknown heart arrhythmia dysfunction. there is a genetic link to her fathers side, but it should not have presented itself until later in life when she would be an adult.

her brother is sleeping on the couch outside his moms room still.

I think he is scared to be alone...and i wouldn't blame him....

[drtarzanmd]

No Thank - You " mibrains "

 

I'm Sorry it took SO LONG to reply ...

My Computer has been crashing Badly ...

Still waiting for New Parts Coming ...

 

But Anyway ...

 

I know in my Heart How Devastated Jane & I would

be to loose one of our Children ...

 

Oh My God ...

 

They would probly have to lock me up in some

mental hospital knowing how our government works ...

 

I am So Very Sorry for Your Friends

I wish i could of done more ....

 

Please keep me Posted how their doing ...

I know you said something about doing some kind of

Benitfit Dinner for the Family ?

 

Maybe i can take up a collection at our Compassion Club ?

 

I was going to ask at the last meeting , BUT I forgot ...

Our Group has Grown So Fast and beyond my Wildest Dreams

and when you put that Many People Together w/ So Many

Ideals , Different Backgrounds , From All Walks of Life ....

 

There will be Problems that have to be work out ...

We're going through some growing pains ....

 

Plus trying to help others the best i can ,

Life gets So Stressful for Me and poor Jane gets Neglected ....

 

There are So Many People Struggling ... that sometimes it

gets Overwhelming for me .... I feel like there are times

I'm going to have a Nervous Break-down over stupid chit ...

 

Im sure I'm preaching to the Chior ...

I'm sure many can relate !

 

Anyways ....

 

Thank - You " mibrains " for all you do ...